auntie

Etymology

aunt + -ie

noun

1. Diminutive of aunt
2. (Asia, Africa) Term of familiarity or respect for a middle-aged or elderly woman.
3. (Hong Kong) female domestic helper
4. (LGBT, slang, US) An elderly gay man.

verb

1. To be or behave like the aunt of.
   In the same melodrama, Madame Rotschild, a supporting character plays a similar role by "auntying" all children as a rich and powerful woman who can solve most problems in children's own homes. 1994, Maria Guadalupe Serna-Perez, Entrepreneurship, Women's Roles, and the Domestic Cycle
   More and more children are being "auntied" by women in the community who feel it is their duty as mothers to care for parentless children. 2003, Richard M. Lerner, Handbook of applied developmental science
   She had had only one unmitigated success in bending the girl to her will over the many years she'd auntied her: She had peeled the dialect right olf Lina's tongue. 2011, Salvatore Scibona, The End, page 72
   “I am the best auntie of any auntie that has ever auntied,” she'd say, and in doing so reshape herself into the image her community needed to see. 2019, Keturah Kendrick, No Thanks: Black, Female, and Living in the Martyr-Free Zone