tease

Etymology

From Middle English tesen, from Old English tǣsan (“to tease”), from Proto-West Germanic *taisijan (“to separate, tug, shred”).

verb

1. (transitive) To separate the fibres of (a fibrous material).
2. (transitive) To comb (originally with teasels) so that the fibres all lie in one direction.
3. (transitive) To backcomb.
4. (transitive) To poke fun at, either cruelly or affectionately.
   The difference between teasing and taunting is like the difference between kissing and spitting. The ingredients are the same; it is the emotion that determines whether it is pleasing or repellent.... Proper teasing says, in effect, "I know all your little oddities and faults, but as they are part of what makes you special, I find them charming." Taunting, in contrast, makes only the harsh statement, "I have noticed what is wrong with you." 22 February 1998, Judith Martin, “Tease and sympathy”, in The Washington Post
   The beast in the past has done horrible stuff / And his victims were left quite displeased / No one knows what he's so angry about / Maybe once in third grade he was teased 2008, Lich King, “Attack of the Wrath of the War of the Death of the Strike of the Sword of the Blood of the Beast”, in Toxic Zombie Onslaught
5. (transitive) To provoke or disturb; to annoy.
   Not by the force of carnal reason, / But indefatigable teasing. 1684, Samuel Butler, Hudibras
   I am myself, the sweetest temper'd man alive, and hate a teasing temper; and so I tell her a hundred Times a day 1777, Richard Brinsley Sheridan, The School for Scandal, I.ii
   He[…]suffered them to tease him into acts directly opposed to his strongest inclinations. 1848, Thomas Macaulay, History of England, volume I, page 76
6. (transitive) To manipulate or influence the behavior of, especially by repeated acts of irritation.
   A young woman, if she fall into bad hands, may be teased, and kept at a distance from those she wants to be with; but one cannot comprehend a young man’s being under such restraint, as not to be able to spend a week with his father, if he likes it. 1815, Jane Austen, Emma, volume I, chapter 14
7. (transitive) To entice, tempt.
   [H]ere comes my Helpmate!—She appears in great good humour——how happy I should be if I could teaze her into loving me tho' but a little 1777, Richard Brinsley Sheridan, The School for Scandal, III.i
8. (transitive, informal) To show as forthcoming, in the manner of a teaser.
   a less interesting character here than in the previous two films, Caesar glowers through the movie, as though aware that he has been condemned to a script that is rushing to clear the stage for the straightforward Planet Of The Apes remake first teased in Rise Of The Planet Of The Apes. July 7, 2017, Ignatiy Vishnevetsky, “The ambitious War For The Planet Of The Apes ends up surrendering to formula”, in The Onion AV Club

noun

1. One who teases.
2. A single act of teasing.
3. One who deliberately arouses others (usually men) sexually with no intention of satisfying that arousal.